**Brides Who Say ‘It’s My Day’ Should Pay for Everything**.
Brides spend an average of $33,900 on their wedding, according to The Knot’s 2019 Real Weddings Study. That’s a lot of money, and it’s not always easy to come up with. As a result, some brides are turning to their guests to help pay for their big day..
There are a few different ways to ask guests to contribute to your wedding expenses. One way is to set up a wedding website and include a link to a registry or donation page. Another way is to send out save-the-dates or invitations with a note requesting that guests make a monetary gift in lieu of a traditional present..
If you’re considering asking your guests to help pay for your wedding, there are a few things you should keep in mind:.
* **Be clear about your expectations.** Let your guests know exactly how much you’re expecting them to contribute. Don’t be vague or ambiguous..
* **Be respectful of your guests’ financial situations.** Not everyone can afford to give a lot of money, so don’t expect your guests to break the bank..
* **Be grateful for any contribution, no matter how small.** Even a small gift is a sign that your guests care about you and want to help you celebrate your big day..
If you’re not comfortable asking your guests to contribute to your wedding expenses, there are other ways to save money. Here are a few tips:.
* **Get creative with your guest list.** Invite only the people who you really want to be there, and consider having a smaller wedding..
* **Choose a less expensive venue.** There are many beautiful and affordable wedding venues available. Don’t feel like you have to have your wedding at the most expensive place in town..
* **Negotiate with vendors.** Don’t be afraid to ask vendors for discounts or special deals. You may be surprised at how much you can save..
* **DIY some of your wedding details.** There are many things you can do yourself to save money on your wedding, such as making your own centerpieces or invitations..
Getting married is a wonderful experience, but it doesn’t have to be expensive. By following these tips, you can save money on your wedding without sacrificing your dream day..
